“Easy” doesn’t mean “better” or “good”. Sometimes “easy” is the one that works well out of the box, but harder to modify and adjust to your specific needs. While I use Ubuntu, I’m aware of how difficult it can be to get it to do exactly what I want. Canonical makes decisions that many Linux users don’t agree with, and trying to gut out those bad decisions from the install is more time spent trying to make Ubuntu what it should have been in the first place.
“Easy” sometimes means having to spend time disabling and removing the bloat that comes included with the distro. Now they’re running ads in your terminal? Figure out how to turn that off. (Hint: it’s not obvious.)
Me? I’m a customizer. No, I’m not talking about ricing the desktop. I just want a clean OS install where I can add just the parts and pieces I need. Let me choose my own partitioning, filesystem, apps, desktop, and what daemons I want running, please. No, I’m not interested in your baked-in proprietary video drivers, non hardware-accelerated codecs, or closed curated app store that doesn’t let me choose which version of an app I want to install, and has a mind of its own, upgrading applications behind my back without me triggering the upgrade. I want to be in the driver’s seat, have full control and authority over my system, and if I break it, I own both pieces.
Yes, if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can break ANY distro. I tend to think I do know what I’m doing, and I’ve broken all of them. Assuming because you’re running distro X or Y you don’t have to worry about updates breaking something, you’re not living in reality. Doesn’t matter which distro you’re on, it has happened, and it will happen again. As for Arch, some updates require you to perform additional steps, because it’s a rolling release, and newer versions of software don’t always keep legacy configurations working in newer versions, or there’s a security fix that might break something you had working, so you’ll need to make a configuration change going forward.
My recommendation is to be willing to learn. As long as you have that mindset, the distro won’t matter. You’ll find what works for the task at hand, and that solution might be different for different tasks.
Yes, I game on Linux, and for me, gaming on Arch Linux works just fine. YMMV.